How to know if you’ve met the right one

CNN host, Zain Asher and her husband Steve Peoples are celebrating one year of being married and in an Instagram post she made, she revealed how one can if one has met the right one.   According to Zain Asher, once an individual meets the right one, they will not only connect romantically, but spiritually and emotionally. And they can also know if they are with the right one when the relationship is bettering the world around them The host, who is heavily pregnant with their first child, wrote: How do you know if you’ve met “the one?” Simple. If, on some level, your relationship has made the world around you a better place. If both of you unblock the sunlight of each other’s spirit, allowing each other’s souls to sing. If both of you challenge each other to grow spiritually, creatively, emotionally. I can honestly say I am a much better person because of who I married. My husband has…
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what do women really want?.

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthurs youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question?... What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarchs proposition to have an answer by years end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would hav…

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Remember This When Your Ex Moves On Before You

So, you were probably scrolling through Instagram or Facebook, keeping tabs on your friends, when you stumble upon a photo. The photo consists of a close friend of yours and someone they would consider their close friend. You stalk a little and check out this new friend only to find a photo of them with your ex. Instantly, you’re crushed. You yell at the universe and stars above for guiding you to this unwanted discovery.

You start stalking this person. You figure out their name, their physical appearance, their mutual associations, what they do in their spare time, everything. I really hate having the ability to find out anything I want at the tips of my fingers so easily. Social media is really scary at giving us this exposure, no matter how much privacy we set. If you dig deep enough, you can find anything you want; we are like our own personal detectives. You start comparing yourself to her . You either compare yourself to her and praise…

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5 Things Women Have To Consider While Dating That Men Never Have To

1. “Am I being carefree enough?”

Whether you realize it or not, when dating someone new, women are constantly straddling this weird line of whether or not they are being carefree enough or not. If we seem too interested, it could be a turn off. If we aren’t interested enough, he might not know we’re into him. It’s this ridiculous back and forth of trying to seem interested and trying to seem like we don’t care and, in the end, it’s so much disingenuous effort that we wish it didn’t have to be a consideration. It’s like there’s this fantasy world where everyone brashly states their intentions and nobody has to appear as anything except as they are and we all would like to get to that place, but nobody knows how to get there.

2. “Did I sleep with him too soon?”

When has a man ever in the history of his life asked himself if he slept with a woman too soon, maybe so soon that she will not be interested i…

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Study shows that black men cheat more than any other race of men

A new study claims black men cheat more than any other race of men and claims to have data to prove it. In addition to gender and age, the study shows that the infidelity rate changes based on a number of other demographic and social factors. The study claims to find that cheating is somewhat more common among black adults. Some 22% of ever-married blacks said that they cheated on their spouses, compared with 16% of whites and 13% of Hispanics. And among black men, the rate is highest: 28% reported that they had sex with someone other than their spouses, compared with 20% of white men and 16% of Hispanic men. In general, men are more likely than women to cheat: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they’ve had sex with someone other than their spouse while married, according to data from the recent General Social Survey.     The result of the study adds that: A person’s political identity, family background, and religious activity are also r…
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10 Signs A Guy Will Definitely Sleep With You When You Visit Him – Be Smart Ladies

When men meet ladies, the basic thing most of them want to do is to get down with them. Depending on the outcome of events, some men may decide to go into a long term relationship with them or opt in for the fling option. Without wasting much time, there are certain pointers women should watch out for when they meet new guys as this would help them discover what the men could be up to. The following signs would help ladies know whether a man would act like a gentle man or make attempt to sleep with them as soon as they visit them: 1. His Friends Vacate The Room Just when you get to his place and his friends start going out of the room one after the other until you are left alone. This has already been planned prior to your arrival. Don’t think they left at their own discretion, he don already cut eyes give dem make dem comot. 2. He Asks What You’re Wearing Just when a guy is curious to know whether you will be wearing a skirt or trouser to his house then be sur…
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No Stomach Ache For Lack Of Sex

A Nigerian doctor has been going on an enlightenment spree on twitter, educating his followers on the wrong perceptions they usually have on various pre and post sexual activities. According to Dr. Olufunmilayo, most guys will always give the excuse of lack of sex for an imaginary severe stomach ache This is all in the bid to get down with their prospects. Well, the doctor has stated that it is entirely false and no man ever gets stomach pain from lack of sex. Read his tweets: “To boys who tell ladies they are having very severe stomach pains from not having sex: Your day of reckoning has come That line is an ABSOLUTE lie No man ever gets severe acute stomach ache from not having sex. And NO, not having sex has NO LONG TERM DAMAGES to a man. I understand as a part of some imaginary bro code, I shouldn’t put this information out there But I’m sorry, I’m just a messenger doing the work of the Lord The story that a man will be having very severe…
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I’m Sorry I Pushed You Away – Must read.

I’m sorry I pushed you away because I responded to all your texts on time, I answered all your calls and I said yes to all your dates.

I’m sorry I pushed you away because I opened up to you, I let myself be vulnerable , I trusted you even though I didn’t know you well enough but I was comforted by your presence, by your soothing energy, by the kindness in your eyes.

I’m sorry I wasn’t guarded with you like I am with everyone else. I’m sorry that there was something about you that made me want to forget about everything that happened in the past and all the men that broke my heart and focus on you. I’m sorry I lived in the moment a little too much — it’s like I had a feeling it might not last.

I’m sorry I thought we’re on the same page. I thought you wanted more. I thought you wanted to stay. I thought you felt it too. I thought I was the one you thought of in the morning and the one you dreamt abou…

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